And I normally just brush it away but now I’m frustrated. In a green screen interview, Yandy explained why she thought this issue was silly, “This isn’t the first time the phone call, email thing has come up. Don’t negate me making sure the kids are good, don’t negate the calls I did pick up.” Then it would be, ‘You know, you don’t have to do this.’ And for me it felt like, don’t negate what I have been doing. Yandy explained how the communication issue led to Mendeecees saying they don’t have to be together, “And if I didn’t talk to you, it was a problem. Mendeecees disagreed, “You lying, you don’t even get that many minutes.” Time wasn’t something Yandy Smith always had. Yandy said, “When he was locked up, I was locked up.” Mendeecees then said, “But you ain’t email for two months…for six months.” Yandy responded with, “But that’s because I was talking to you every day.” When they were asked by AJ Johnson if they had any insecurities, it was revealed that they clashed while Mendeecees was in prison over how often Yandy answered phone calls and sent emails. In fact, they addressed some of their issues on VH1’s “Couples Retreat.” And she wasn’t sure how she would be able to make it through while raising their children.Įven though Mendeecees is now out of prison, it doesn’t mean their relationship has been easier.

It was such a hard moment for Yandy that she suffered a mental breakdown.

While they did go through a lot of drama with Mendeecees’ baby mommas, their biggest obstacle was the years Mendeecees had to spend in prison. “ Love And Hip Hop New York” couple Yandy Smith and Mendeecees Harris have been through a lot. Photo Credit: VH1/YouTube Mendeecees Harris and Yandy Smith clashed over communication.

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